Very long question but it's really stressing me out to where i'm hurting,please read this and answer?

NO it was not wrong for you to say ****, as long as u are living there and paying rent you have the right to say whatever the hell you want. If your bro in law has a problem with you then **** him, if he is a real man he would talk to you about it. Let your man deal with him because you cant right now. I would be so pissed off my self. You should eather tuff it out or look for a lil room for rent while you wait for your apartment. I know it sucks but there is really nothing you can do.