Ok. i am not looking for an answer to my personal 'did it happen?', rather to the validity of my therapist's

certainty. the question is whether it is possible (highly, not just "well, anything is possible") if i was truly ually abused as a child. (thank the lord for anonyminity). strong ual abuse situations were prominant in the home my father grew up in. there are definite cases with patricular siblings. he himself has been accused, but not convicted of it with in-laws. he has emotional and interpersonal relationship problems. he was verbally, mentally and physically abusive to both my brother and i, as well as a very controlling husband, which included unwanted ual situations my mother once confided to me (as an adult). i am 31, and have been diagnosed, as well as hospitalized, with borderline personality disorder. i was very reckless / promiscuous before i learned how to manage myself, at least in that area. i understand the extent of his obvious abuse could very well be all i had to endure to have these feelings. but i've noticed that triggers relating to